Working the Energy of Virgo Season

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So…I’m late to welcoming y’all into Virgo Season.

Around my birthday week, I got incredibly busy. And then I got sick. So I’ve been a bit MIA lately. My bad.

Today we are going to talk about using your natal chart to effectively utilize the energy of Virgo season to get some shit done.

Ready? Let’s go!

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Solar Eclipse: Self Care

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This information was originally posted to the Philautia private group, in response to two students who wanted to know what could be done in terms of self care for this quickly approaching solar eclipse.


The energies of this time are (obviously) very BIG and heavy. There is a lot going on and a lot being asked of us at this time. We are being asked to rise up and meet these responsibilities.

  • Practical things to do at this time if you are an activist or sensitive person (or both) would be to examine your self care routine at this time.
  • Are your sleeping enough? Eating enough? Drinking enough water? Do you allow yourself to get easily overwhelmed by what’s going on? Remember to take breaks and take care of yourself–you can’t be truly helpful if you’re running on an empty tank!

Spiritual things to do at this time would be:

  • GROUNDING. Make sure you’re grounding yourself.
  • Cleansing yourself and your space is also great. I’ve been really into sage recently, for cleansing spaces.
  • A good self cleansing would be to get in the shower, stand under the spray, and with your eyes closed, envision all the impurities sliding off your spiritual body and flowing down the drain. I would suggest air drying after this cleansing, but depending upon your living situation/comfort with nudity, that may be difficult. Air dry if you can, or wrap yourself in a towel or robe and dry that way.
  • Cleanse those energy centers! There are tons of chakra cleansing guided meditations up on YouTube–take your pick. They range from 5 minutes to an hour, do whichever feels right for you.


America is pretty much going through a time of shadow work right now. A lot of the ugly shit this country was built upon (and continues to benefit from) is coming to the surface. Shadow work and self care/love go hand in hand. Self care is needed after a bout of shadow work, and shadow work itself is basically a form of “tough” love–being honest about the hidden aspects of ourselves so we can either fully integrate them with love, or work to keep them under control.

  • Right now is a great time (for all us white people reading this) to be honest with ourselves about our complacency within this oppressive system and work on that, and also to think upon how we specifically can work on dismantling white supremacy and its effects.
  • Ask your guides/higher self/deities/divination method of choice (or really dig down and journal your thoughts out) about all this shit: How you’ve been complacent, but also how you specifically can be a help at this point.

The Hoodwitch has a great blog post further detailing the energies of this time that you can use to come up with your own ideas about what to do:…/the-hoodwitch-witch-tips

In summation: Keep yourself clean & grounded, be a help to yourself and others, and don’t lose hope!

((Also, I know the eclipse is big and exciting and all, but let’s not forget that we’re also going through Mercury retrograde. The Mercury Rx is in Virgo, so planning is a big, big thing you can do for yourself right now. Grab your planner [or start a bullet journal] and start getting things in order. Your future self will thank you for it!))

SoSL: Down & Dirty Self Care Tips

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As the self proclaimed Realistic Mystic, I feel obligated to keep things 100% honest with y’all.

So I feel very comfortable saying that the popular self care tips that seem to circulate online aren’t for all of us. And they’re not for most of us all of the time. I know there’s a lot of you who follow this blog who have depression (like me). I know there’s at least one of you who has Lyme disease. I’m sure there’s many more of y’all who have mental/physical issues that zap your energy.

These tips are for y’all. Not all of these tips are going to work for all of you. That’s okay. Take what works for you, use the rest as a springboard to come up with ideas that will work for your situation.

This is my love letter to my fellow Spoonies out there. You deserve access to self love, too. You deserve the peace of mind knowing that you need to be able to survive before you can thrive, and that’s okay. I love you, and I believe in you. You’ve got this.

Now, onto the tips!

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Limited Time Reading!

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Month two of the Summer of Self Love will continue this weekend, but while I’m working on that, I thought I’d tell you about the newest reading in the shop!

Eclipse season is upon us! This is a time of great change and powerful energies.

August 2017 gives us a partial lunar eclipse in full moon Aquarius (on August 7th), and a full solar eclipse on new moon Leo (on the 21st).

Aquarius and Leo are sister signs–exact opposites on the natal chart. Aquarius is a sign built on independence and rebellion, while Leo is all about being the center of attention–a queen dependent on the adoration of their subjects.

Using the energies of this lunar cycle would be incredibly helpful when trying to bridge emotional gaps in your life. How are you letting opposing personality traits tear you in two? And how can you heal those fissures?

This nine (9) card reading can help you figure it out. This reading is comprised of eight (8) tarot cards which detail where your inner rebellious teen may be butting heads with your inner ruling royal, and how you can coax the two into cooperation.

The ninth card is an oracle card, giving you either a keyword or a mantra for you to focus on during this lunar cycle.

This reading is only being offered until August 8, 2017 and there are only 6 left in stock. So if you want one,  h u r r y ! !

Order Yours Here!

SoSL: The Power of the Personal Myth

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The Summer of Self Love continues! Real quick, allow me to say Happy Leo Season! If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you’ll know that this is one of my favorite times of the year. I hope you all are well.


Stories Are Important

As a hillbilly, I know this to be truth. We’re a group of people with a long and rich history of participating in the oral tradition. Stories are how we teach the youngsters, it’s how we let others know our perspective–how we relate to and interact with the world around us.

Thankfully, academia also knows the power and importance of story telling to humanity as a whole.


Humans are inclined to see narratives where there are none because it can afford meaning to our lives, a form of existential problem-solving.  [x]

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SoSL: Links Round Up!

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And so it begins again, dear reader! The Summer of Self Love is back! To get things started, I thought I’d gather a list of links to articles I wrote this time last year, articles from other authors I’ve found useful, and a few products you may find helpful in your self care journey.

Let’s go!

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The Chiron Workbooks

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Have you heard about the Chiron Workbooks yet?

The Chiron Workbooks were designed for people who are interested in Self work, and perhaps new to the asteroid Chiron and its impact on their natal chart.

This workbook clocks in at a short and sweet 22 pages, but even at its small size, was designed to be revisited again and again.

Look Inside the Chiron Workbooks

Each workbook opens with a short introduction and a short letter written specifically for your sign. From there, I walk you through the basics of your Chiron sign, and how it manifests in each House.

Also included in each workbook are 13 different journal prompts and activities, crystal/gem and herb correspondences for your Chiron, affirmations specific for your healing, two spells, and two mini-rituals. All designed specifically to help you heal your Wounded Healer.

Download the workbook now, and begin your healing journey!

Oh, and the best part? It’s $7.00

Get Yours Here

Note: Workbooks are based on Chiron signs, not sun Signs. You must know your Chiron sign and download the correct workbook for these to work correctly for you.

Chiron–The Wounded Healer

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Way back in March of 2016, I wrote my very first post about Astrology as it relates to Shadow Work.

In that post, I gave you ideas about different placements to look towards that would help with your shadow work. One of the placements I mentioned was the asteroid Chiron.

Let’s examine that more closely, shall we?

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Negativity Banishing Spell

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It’s been a while since I’ve given y’all a post, huh?

I’m sorry about that. The truth is, I’ve been working on this big new project for the shop (which I am SO excited about), and it’s been eating up most of my time. But the good news about that is I’m nearly done! Keep your eyes peeled for a new blog post about that the first week of June.

But until then, I thought it’d be a good idea to not only check in with my blog folks (as I’ve still been in contact with everyone subscribed to the newsletter, obviously), and tell y’all about one of my favorite spells ever.

Hitting the Energetic Re-Set Button

Have you ever felt stuck in a funk? And not the fun, groovy Funkadelic sort of funk. I’m talking about that “everything around me feels heavy and vaguely shitty” kind of funk. Of course you have–you’re a human being, after all.

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